I am only 23 years old, (I know, too young to worry about this stuff) and I was dating a girl I met down at the Jersey Shore last summer all the way up until January. We kind of drifted apart, although it was more her pulling away from me as she admitted. She is … More Pain and Pleasure: The Best Teachers
“Now the man I’m in love with just wants to be friends. What do I do?” I had been involved with a man for over a year and a half. Our relationship is was very deep and loving. We spent as much time together as we could and discussed marriage plans in the future. About … More Trust Is Like Virginity…
I am a 20 year old guy. I have known this girl for about 2 years and I am in love with her its the 1st time I have ever been inlove. When I first met her she was with my friend Chad. It was love at first sight. A week later she broke up … More Over The Moon With her Answer, But Now What?
Bryan, I have a problem and it’s breaking my heart. I have been involved off and on (mainly on) with a wonderful man in Canada. I live in the U.S. Our online relationship has been wonderful and I recently moved a lot closer to him geographically (not FOR him, just a coincidence with my job). … More Being Up Front Saves You From The Lows
I really need advice because I’m really confused/upset/not sure what to do. I have been “dating” this guy without the title for the past 2 months. We do everything together. He spends the night, he pays for dates, he takes me on dates, we are basically dating. Yesterday, I decided to tell him I wanted more … More Military Man Misery
Types of Girls…How can you tell? Some girls like to be treated like crap and they fall in love with you and others want you to suck up to them…I’m confused, bruised and tattooed. ~J Hi J, My first question to you is why would you waste your time around a woman who treats you … More Girls vs. Women: Which is a man looking for?
Why can’t I ever get a second date with the same guy? I’m doing great at getting a first date, but I’ve been getting ghosted within a few days after every time. What am I doing wrong? ~K Hi K, I’ve heard women ask me this question enough times now that I thought it was … More The Dating Game is Changing
How do you communicate with someone who has adult-diagnosed ADHD and is very insecure? My husband refuses to listen to or believe me when I try to offer him any kind of fact, but if someone else tells him the same fact, their word is believed immediately. The few days of the week that I’m … More A Deficit of Attention Will Lead to a Marriage Deficit
I connected with a friend who I hadn’t seen for a few years. We did Reiki shares at a common friend’s home. This friend, Jim, is 13 years older, age 74. So we started doing things together. I feel as friends, but soon he was trying to kiss me. I didn’t feel a similar interest, … More Hot and Heavy or Hopeless?
Welcome! This blog is the home of Bryan Redfield, your new favorite advice columnist for all things relating to human relationships and interactions. Have you got problems in your relationship? Are you afraid you’re seeing signs that your partner isn’t the right one for you? Are you worried about the stability of your marriage? Do … More Introduction
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