Military Man Misery

I really need advice because I’m really confused/upset/not sure what to do. I have been “dating” this guy without the title for the past 2 months. We do everything together. He spends the night, he pays for dates, he takes me on dates, we are basically dating. Yesterday, I decided to tell him I wanted more … More Military Man Misery

A Deficit of Attention Will Lead to a Marriage Deficit

How do you communicate with someone who has adult-diagnosed ADHD and is very insecure?  My husband refuses to listen to or believe me when I try to offer him any kind of fact, but if someone else tells him the same fact, their word is believed immediately.  The few days of the week that I’m … More A Deficit of Attention Will Lead to a Marriage Deficit


Welcome! This blog is the home of Bryan Redfield, your new favorite advice columnist for all things relating to human relationships and interactions. Have you got problems in your relationship? Are you afraid you’re seeing signs that your partner isn’t the right one for you? Are you worried about the stability of your marriage? Do … More Introduction