I really need advice because I’m really confused/upset/not sure what to do. I have been “dating” this guy without the title for the past 2 months. We do everything together. He spends the night, he pays for dates, he takes me on dates, we are basically dating. Yesterday, I decided to tell him I wanted more … More Military Man Misery
Types of Girls…How can you tell? Some girls like to be treated like crap and they fall in love with you and others want you to suck up to them…I’m confused, bruised and tattooed. ~J Hi J, My first question to you is why would you waste your time around a woman who treats you … More Girls vs. Women: Which is a man looking for?
I am a single woman, 35 years old. I have been divorced for 8 years and I am raising my 14 year old child alone.I work full time and have a business on the side so after devoting time to my child and working often 100 hours per week, I have absolutely no time for … More A Life Without Happiness Is No Life At all
Is it okay to ask a Christian guy if he’s interested in me or wants to date? If it is please then tell me how to do it. Here’s our background. I’m a 47 year old single Christian woman. He’s a 50 year old divorced Christian man. He was married 14 years ago but is … More Christian Dating The Simple Way
I love my husband but he says he can’t stop drinking and he doesn’t want to. How can I help him? He’s not abusive. I just don’t want him to hurt himself. ~G Hi G, I was a bartender in Hollywood for 14 years. During that time I served non drinkers, light drinkers, heavy drinkers … More Drinking or Marital Death? Your Choice
Why can’t I ever get a second date with the same guy? I’m doing great at getting a first date, but I’ve been getting ghosted within a few days after every time. What am I doing wrong? ~K Hi K, I’ve heard women ask me this question enough times now that I thought it was … More The Dating Game is Changing
I connected with a friend who I hadn’t seen for a few years. We did Reiki shares at a common friend’s home. This friend, Jim, is 13 years older, age 74. So we started doing things together. I feel as friends, but soon he was trying to kiss me. I didn’t feel a similar interest, … More Hot and Heavy or Hopeless?
Question: How do I get people to listen to me without being a B? Not like command, just LISTEN. I have a soft voice so I think that has something to do with it. I get talked over a lot and it’s very annoying. ~J Hi J, Thank you for contacting me. You didn’t mention … More Sound Like a Lamb, But Be a Lioness
Welcome! This blog is the home of Bryan Redfield, your new favorite advice columnist for all things relating to human relationships and interactions. Have you got problems in your relationship? Are you afraid you’re seeing signs that your partner isn’t the right one for you? Are you worried about the stability of your marriage? Do … More Introduction